Adventures in Babysitting
I was the go-to girl in my family. Whenever the adults had an event to attend, I was stuck watching the babies. There were times I was excited, moments when I was frustrated, and situations where I thought my life couldn't get any worse. And this was just the first hour of my shift!
I never had any girls to baby-sit; for awhile my family seem to only produce boys. It was a breeze. No finger nails to paint, no Barbies to dress-up, and no shying away from dirt and bugs. The boys were also my cousins, so I assume my level of patience was higher because of this factor. Had it been some regular babysitting gig, I may have thrown in the towel earlier. Luckily, I didn't.
My family has supported me in my time of need (and want-like a girl's night out). They were and are willing to lend a hand whenever I need them. I never have to worry. I just don't want to wear my welcome out.
If you have the opportunity, volunteer to help-out a family. Even if for a couple of hours, having a few moments to yourself can really make a difference in your day. Teenagers make great babysitters as well. I would know, I was one. If you feel uncomfortable letting a teenager watch your kids alone, have them come over while you're home just to alleviate you. At least you'll be in the home, but you won't have to dedicate your full attention to the kids.
Babysitting is rewarding. It's an experience. It is also memorable. It teaches life-lessons.
I'll leave you with a song from one of my all-time favorite movies, "Adventures in Babysitting":
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